Hawaii Wedding Packages and Rates
Elegant Yet Casual Beach Receptions
During my Master of Divinity schooling, I was trained as a Pastoral Counselor
and Spiritual Director and had a private practice as a Spiritual Counselor
on the island of Oahu before moving to Kauai.
Many of the couples I marry choose to have a counseling session with me. I recommend it highly as it gives me the opportunity to give couples support for a wonderful beginning to their married life.
We will usually schedule our time together a day or two before your wedding. Couples love our session and so do I. We sit together for about an hour and a half. This time allows me to share what I’ve learned in many years working with couples and being a person on the earth myself. It’s really fun.
We talk about all of our relationships--the ones with ourselves, with our partner, with others, and the world.
Here are a few of the things I would like to share with you:
$150/session

Many couples have asked me for a book that will suport them in deepening their understanding of how to have a profoundly intimate and harmonious relationship with themselves and each other through their life together.
The book is nearly ready. If you would like a copy please fill out this short form. We'll be in touch!
Here’s a message from Jamie and Jason, a couple I counseled and then married:
"Dear Virginia,
Jason and I are eternally grateful for the love you showed to us and for helping us start out marriage in the most beautiful place on earth, with such beautiful people, and giving us such beautiful memories of it!
Almost every night since our wedding 21 days ago, we have done our "check-ins" and read to each other at night and it gives me chills every time we do it. It has such a calming effect on us both and we both start looking forward to it hours before. We have also had a blast creating our own rituals together and just putting into practice so many of the things that we learned during our time with you. We fully anticipated many exciting things about our union before God, but I don't think either of us anticipated the level of intimacy it would bring us or just how much fun it would be to face life together as partners."
Here’s a note from another couple, Adrienne and Don:
"Dear Virginia,
The premarital counseling session was really wonderful. The sense of closeness that I felt with Don after that session was remarkable. I didn't know what to expect from this session, and I was very happy with the experience. Some of the things you mentioned have stuck with me, and I am hoping they make me a better person - and a better partner. I wasn't sharing that much during the session, but when we were driving away from your house I made him stop at the top of your street, and I proceeded to spill my heart to him. It was wonderful."
